Hi,

I’m Lilah.

There’s nothing that special to put here, honestly, this is for fun. To prove that I can, and see where it takes me.

I’ve been working on Soft Boundaries since January 2025, but have been writing and constantly thinking up something like this for over a decade… if only I’d gotten on tumblr back in 2008, then maybe I’d be ahead of the curve lol.

It’s taken me a year because it’s hard to feel like I’m good enough at something, let alone something subjective and personal. So I’m learning to be reasonable with myself and finally said ‘this is good enough, because it will never be perfect to me’ and actually accepting that.

So this is a draft of every overthunk thought, everything is in the air, and I’ve yet to decide what success means regarding it, but that’s the point.